Men hate women’s bodies.
I know what you’re going to say. Men love women’s bodies.
But take a closer look.
Men need women’s bodies to be completely distorted before they find it attractive. The natural hair has to be virtually gone, the breasts need to be pushed out of shape by bras, the stomach needs to disappear completely and there must be almost no natural fat build up at all.
But don’t imagine any of this has to do with health and fitness. The average female athlete is unattractive to men as well. After all she has virtually no breasts.
The only ‘woman’ attractive to men is Barbie; and if the female resembles Barbie, she is rewarded with a wolf whistle, a bum pinch, or a come on line.
She’s never, ever under any circumstances rewarded with respect. After all, she’s gone to all this trouble to look like something he wants; he can’t respect her for that. It’s pathetic really. So he can ogle her free of any moral or intellectual constraints because by the very fact that she’s pandering to his desires, she’s proving herself unworthy of his respect.
In fact, men will take this opportunity to be stupid to the absolute extreme. It is assumed a woman who has gone to this kind of trouble (it is usually young women because they aren’t smart enough to have worked it all out yet, although some older women do it proving some women never work it out) is asking for the disrespect. They don’t think she hasn’t worked out the rules, or that the rules are stupid, but that she knows his brain and is penis are in heavy conflict and that winning one over means you lose the other.
In romance novels the Barbie type is ugly, because she doesn’t look like a woman. The hero is sexually repulsed by anything so distant in shape and concept from a woman, because the hero is a real hetro man.
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Geez, when’s the last time you met an intelligent man, anyway? Most guys who take good care of themselves, love women’s actual bodies, exercise their brains, carry on intelligent conversation, etc. are REJECTED constantly by women. Yes, intelligent women too. Why? Because in order to attract them, they have to be alpha male Schwarzenegger, millionaire Bruce Wayne, and genius Stephen Hawking all rolled up into one—minus the body odour, pretense, and degenerative condition, of course. Women have just as brutal expectations of men, if not more brutal, than men have of women.
What kills me is that most young men, who haven’t had a lot of experience, have no idea what a natural woman’s body looks like thanks to porn and the media.
I guess I’m kind of odd, then. I only know two slim women. The rest are ranging from chubby to obese, one just losing weight out of the “morbidly obese” category. Given that many, many countries now have a 65% obesity rate or higher, it’s not a bad thing or unexpected. I know blondes and brunettes, a red head or two. Some of them have bushy eyebrows. Some of them don’t have long lashes.
I might not be in a relationship with these girls on a romantic level, but I certainly have dated women who didn’t fight themselves.
If a woman is confident and intelligent, nothing is sexier.
Such hypocrisy, I have to take some Pepto Bismo to calm my stomach.
Every modern romance novel that has a male love interest (noted that MOST novels have multiples, for the main female character), has shamefully copied every generic profile and cliche there is, to appease the female reader by offering a mental image of a handsome, strong, muscular, gentle yet firmly “pressing her bosom while she rubs his loins”.
In other words, all messages all clear, the only REAL men that are the subject of hearts desire have to embody all of these qualities, and anyone else?
Down the gutter they go.
And you have the nerve, to suggest, that MEN think women should be Barbie-clones.
Dr. Morlenheim